ohhh my god

ok guys so it's been a while!! i'm in college now and i like this guy. i don't know if he likes me or not but i did sleep in his bed over the weekend (friday and saturday nights). our mutual friend said he likes me back but i really don't know if he's just being nice or not, because he knows i really like him. i'm really nervous and i haven't felt like this in a while genuinely towards someone. one of the issues is, however, that we're SO different. he's very organized and i'm not that organized. he likes football and soccer and i don't. he's from a small town and i'm from a small city. he's a virgin and i'm not at all. i'm flirty, he couldn't flirt if his life depended on it.
we're really similar though. we both love video games like RDR2 and fallout. we're both pretty much impossible to embarrass and we both are goofy and don't take life too seriously. we both love cuddling, and corny couple shit like matching shirts and going to pumpkin patches. we're both big on manners. we have the same political beliefs. we have similar visions for the future. i want a househusband, and while it isn't his primary goal, he's very open to being one.
UGH. i still am not 100% sure if he actually likes me or not. i slept in his bed two nights in a row with him spooning me or me spooning him. however, the first night he was drunk and i was sober, and the second night we were both out of our gourds. ugh!! i like him so much. he held my purse the whole time we were at the mall on saturday night. he follows me around. but today, he barely spoke to me when we woke up and then i decided to leave his room and do my homework. i do really like him a lot. our friends think we're cute, but i think he's afraid we're going too fast. i don't think that sleeping in the same bed when everyone else is also sleeping in said room is too fast at all, but again, he's a guy who likes to take things slow. i think i'd be happy to wait forever for him. ughhh!!!